Single on purpose

I recently finished reading the book by John Kim called ”Single on purpose” . According to him, it is not an anti-relationship call, it is about finding yourself first before diving in someone else. We tend to lose ourselves in the relationship if we are not sure who we are and have no self-love developed. I like the idea that we are not halves that fairy tales taught us to look for. We have to be complete before finding a partner, as if we are not, we risk to get caught in